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Stuck In The Middle With You

A Memoir of Parenting in Three Genders by Jennifer Finney Boylan

Stuck In The Middle With You

Stuck In the Middle With You

Jennifer Finney Boylan
  • Imprint: Crown
  • On sale: April 30, 2013
  • Price: $24.00
  • Pages: 304
  • ISBN: 9780767921763
Contact: Rachel Rokicki

New York Times bestselling, acclaimed author Jennifer Finney Boylan returns with a remarkable memoir about

gender and parenting, including incredible interviews with Richard Russo, Edward Albee, Ann Beattie,

Augusten Burroughs, Susan Minot, Trey Ellis, Timothy Kreider, and others.

“No other memoirist I’ve read so perfectly blends intimacy and witty remove, soul-searching and slapstick, joy and pain. As a child—or as a reader—one could not ask for a wiser, warmer, more engaging companion than Jennifer Finny Boylan.” —Mary Roach, author of Stiff and Packing for Mars

“[A] warm, engaging memoir…This informal investigation and her touchingly funny and always candid story work together to reveal the book’s ultimate truth: that ‘to accept the wondrous scope of gender is to affirm the vast potential of life in all its messy, unfathomable beauty.’ . . . Genuinely insightful through and through.”  Kirkus Reviews

“Boylan enlists different perspectives by writers and others to explore in depth how parenting involves much more than birthing…Boylan writes honestly about the enormous toll her transitioning took on the family, the sense of ‘loss’ they all suffered when she became a woman in 2000, the anxieties she and Deedie felt over the children’s reaction to public censure, dread that the kids harbored their own dark secrets, and annoyance at other people’s inability to use the right pronoun.” Publishers Weekly

“Boylan illuminates diverse family relationships and the many ways families operate fluidly on a seeminglynever-ending spectrum. This unique and giving book has tremendous resonance.”Booklist

“Parents will recognize the basics here: The days go on forever; the years fly by; the heart is gripped by an aching, terrified love. The fact that Boylan changes her gender along the way—father of babies becomes mother of teenagers—does not make this memoir a cabinet of curiosities. It’s a family love story, bighearted and fearlessly funny. ‘To accept the wondrous scope of gender,’ Boylan writes, ‘is to affirm the vast potential of life, in all its messy, unfathomable beauty.’ And her story, interspersed with celebrity interviews on parenting, is messy and beautiful indeed. In the end…as Boylan’s mother puts it, ‘love will prevail.’”More Magazine

Jennifer Finney Boylan is the author of twelve books, including She’s Not There, a groundbreaking and critically acclaimed bestseller. A regular contributor to the New York Times op-ed page and Condé Nast Traveler, Jennifer’s appearances on the Today show, The Oprah Winfrey Show, a Barbara Walters special, and NPR’s Talk of the Nation and Marketplace, to name a few, demonstrate her charm and charisma. Jennifer now brings us her thoughtful, tear-jerking, hilarious memoir STUCK IN THE MIDDLE WITH YOU: A Memoir of Parenting in Three Genders.

Jennifer, then Jim, emerged as transgender when her two children were young, and as Jennifer transitioned from a man to a woman and from a father to a mother, her family—sons, Zach and Sean, and wife, Deirdre—faced unique challenges and questions. In STUCK IN THE MIDDLE WITH YOU, Jennifer asks what it means to be a father, or a mother. As the only widely published American author who has been both, Jennifer recounts her own experiences at either end—and in the midst—of the gender spectrum, illuminating what it means to be a parent. From the friends who support Jennifer and Deirdre’s new configuration and to those who question it, Jennifer’s family grows and changes together in ways both utterly exceptional and entirely commonplace, as their sons turn into teenagers and a relationship of many years weathers illness, loss of parents, and a husband turning into a wife.

Throughout her memoir, Jennifer skillfully includes insightful interviews with Richard Russo, Edward Albee, Ann Beattie, Augusten Burroughs, Susan Minot, Trey Ellis, and Timothy Kreider to delve deeper into what family means to different people. Jennifer examines relationships with fathers and mothers, people’s memories of the children they were and the parents they had, and the many different ways a family can grow and change. With an afterword by Anna Quindlen that includes Jennifer and her wife discussing the challenges they’ve faced and the love they share, STUCK IN THE MIDDLE WITH YOU tests our assumptions about gender and parenting while it charms and engages.

About the Author:  Jennifer Finney Boylan is a professor of English at Colby College in Maine. She has served on the judging committee of the Fulbright Scholar Program, administered by the U.S. Department of State. She lives in Maine with her wife, Deirdre, and their children, Zach and Sean. Boylan is a Random House Speaker’s Bureau client, visit:

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